Investing in Yourself: A Powerful Step towards Empowerment

As a woman, you might have heard the message that investing in yourself is not worth it. Society constantly tells you that you are not good enough, smart enough, or deserving enough. These messages can make you feel unworthy and small, causing you to neglect your own needs and aspirations. However, investing in yourself is a powerful tool to break free from the limiting beliefs holding you back and to create the life you truly desire.

Investing in yourself can take on many forms, such as pursuing education, training, coaching, therapy, self-care, and more. It means prioritizing your growth and well-being, even when it seems inconvenient, uncomfortable, or scary. It means believing that you are worthy of your own time, attention, and resources, regardless of what anyone else says.

As you invest in yourself, you also invest in your future, your legacy, and your impact in the world. 
— Jo Portia Mayari

Investing in yourself is not only important for your personal development but also for your professional success. As women, we often have to work twice as hard as men to get the same recognition and opportunities. By investing in yourself, you can gain the skills, knowledge, and confidence to advance in your career, start your own business, or pursue your passions.

Investing in yourself is also a way to honor your purpose and calling in life. You have unique talents, gifts, and experiences that can make a difference in the world. By investing in yourself, you can unleash your potential and contribute to something greater than yourself. You can also inspire other women to do the same, creating a ripple effect of empowerment and impact.

Of course, investing in yourself can also come with challenges and obstacles. It might require overcoming your fears, doubts, and limiting beliefs. It might require you to prioritize your own needs over others' expectations, which can feel selfish or guilty. It might require you to face uncomfortable truths about yourself, your relationships, and your goals. However, these challenges can also be opportunities for growth and transformation, as they can help you to develop resilience, compassion, and self-awareness.

If you're ready to invest in yourself, here are some tips to get started:

  • Identify your goals and priorities. What do you want to achieve in your personal and professional life? What are your strengths and weaknesses? What resources do you need to achieve your goals?

  • Seek support and guidance. Who can help you to reach your goals, whether it's a mentor, a coach, a therapist, or a friend? Who can hold you accountable and provide constructive feedback? Who can inspire and motivate you when the going gets tough?

  • Commit to continuous learning and growth. What skills, knowledge, and experiences do you need to acquire to reach your goals? What books, courses, workshops, or events can you attend to expand your horizons? What feedback or evaluation mechanisms can you use to measure your progress and adjust your approach?

  • Take care of your physical, emotional, and spiritual well-being. What habits and practices can you adopt to nourish your body, mind, and soul? What self-care rituals or routines can you establish to reduce stress, boost energy, and enhance resilience? What boundaries or limits can you set to protect your time, energy, and boundaries?

  • Celebrate your successes and learn from your failures. What milestones or achievements can you acknowledge and celebrate along the way? What lessons or insights can you glean from your setbacks or mistakes? What feedback or reflections can you use to improve and course correct?

Remember that investing in yourself is not a one-time event, but a lifelong journey. It requires dedication, commitment, and courage, but it also offers tremendous rewards and fulfillment.

As you invest in yourself, you also invest in your future, your legacy, and your impact in the world. 

So go ahead, give yourself permission to be your own best investment, and watch your life and the lives around you transform for the better.

Jo Portia

Jo Portia Mayari is a globally renowned sex and relationship coach based in SF Bay Area. She is deeply passionate about empowering people to embrace their sensual creativity and erotic expression to transform their sex and relationships.

She is a certified trauma-informed tantric sex and relationship coach who has dared to lead hundreds of people down a path of radical self-acceptance and sexual liberation. Her journey through unconditional radical AF self-love and wellness gained her recognition by Global Founder & CEO of Thrive Global, Arianna Huffington, as one of the Top 20 Health + Wellness role models.

http://www.joportia.com
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