Our Favorite Erogenous Zones

Every part of your body has its own role in getting you ready for sex and experiencing orgasm, so it's important to know where all those parts are, what they do best, and how they work together to make you feel good.

Your body has thousands of erogenous zones or areas where stimulation can create pleasure. These can be on the outside surface of the body such as the nipples, inner thighs, and genitals, as well as inside the body such as the G-spot and A-spot. All these areas contain nerve endings that respond to different types of stimulation and can create pleasure. Knowing which areas are the most sensitive on your body can help you enjoy yourself more and find satisfaction.

There are plenty of non-genital parts of your body that have a high concentration of nerve endings that send signals to your brain alerting it of pleasant sensations.

We've put together a quick list of our favorite pleasure zones that aren't necessarily as well-known as the genitals but can help make sure every part of your body is ready for some sexy time:

  1. The back of your neck: It's true! Nuzzling up against someone else's neck can be a great way to get turned on without even realizing it. This area is full of nerve endings, so when someone else touches it lightly or bites down gently, it sends signals straight from there straight down to where all the magic happens... and trust us, you want those signals going straight through when things get steamy!

  2. The sides of the neck: This is another great place to focus some attention when getting ready for some sexy time. While the back of your neck tends to be more sensitive, this area is a little bit more on the firm side. It's also an area that people tend not to touch as often, so if someone does it for you early on in a relationship and if it’s consensual, it can feel really amazing!

  3. The inside of your elbows: This might sound strange, but it's actually a really good place to focus when you're trying to get turned on. It's full of nerve endings that are extremely sensitive and can help send messages straight down to your groin if someone is touching them gently or massaging them while they're giving you a back rub.

  4. The back of the knee: Like the elbow, this zone might sound pretty strange but it’s another nerve-rich dense area where we’re not often touched. Touching the back of the knees and leading up to the inner thighs and maybe even the butt area is intimate and can build up and an immense amount of sensation due to all the nerves trailing up and down this area of the body. Try gentle touching in this area if your partner is sensitive and prone to getting tickled try a deep massage and if you’re feeling extra spicy you can even try trailing your tongue up and down this area. 

  5. The ears: This is one of our favorite spots for getting turned on, and we don't think it gets enough credit! The ears are super sensitive and have a lot of nerve endings, so when someone else lightly touches them or nibbles gently, it can send signals straight from there to your pleasure zones. Plus, it feels super intimate because you're so close to someone else's face!

  6. The inner thigh: If you want to get someone really hot and bothered, try lightly running your fingers along the insides of their thighs. Many people enjoy stimulation here because it's a super sensitive area that's often overlooked by most people. You can also use this as an opportunity to tickle them!

  7. The chest: While this may be the most obvious choice when it comes to erogenous zones, it's still worth mentioning because so many people forget about it! When someone touches you here, it can feel amazing because they're getting so close to your heart (literally!).

  8. The back: This is another area that's often overlooked, but it can be really fun to stimulate! Try lightly running your fingertips in small circles along their spine or gently massaging their shoulders.

  9. The butt: While this may sound like an odd choice for erogenous zones, there are plenty of people who enjoy having their butts touched. The area right under your butt cheeks can be a little-explored area of arousal. Try using a feather or a soft caress right along the hamstring and glute crease. You can also try slowly running your fingers up and down the crack of their ass or gently squeezing it (just make sure you know if they're into that before doing so).

  10. The Feet: The feet can be very sensitive to the touch and have their own erogenous zones. Gently massaging the feet with oil or lotion can be very relaxing and pleasurable. You can also try stimulating the soles of the feet with a feather or other soft material to bring new sensations.

Exploring and playing with the erogenous zones of the body can open up a whole new realm of pleasure and intimacy between partners. So why not take the time to explore these zones, and discover what turns you on and what feels best for you and your partner?

Your body is an instrument, play with curiosity and devotion. 

Jo Portia

Jo Portia Mayari is a globally renowned sex and relationship coach based in SF Bay Area. She is deeply passionate about empowering people to embrace their sensual creativity and erotic expression to transform their sex and relationships.

She is a certified trauma-informed tantric sex and relationship coach who has dared to lead hundreds of people down a path of radical self-acceptance and sexual liberation. Her journey through unconditional radical AF self-love and wellness gained her recognition by Global Founder & CEO of Thrive Global, Arianna Huffington, as one of the Top 20 Health + Wellness role models.

http://www.joportia.com
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